I Finally Figured Out What It Means When Men Say They 'Want A Chase'

Most women have had a crush on a man enough to pursue him.

I can't tell you how many guys have told me they'd kill for a female to give them flowers or make the first move.

Dating coaches caution women about being the "chaser" for a reason. 

Most men know within months of dating a woman whether they desire a serious relationship, whether they confess it or not.

As a non-binary person who appears as female, I know how awful it is to attempt to be the "woman" who pursues.

Realizing that attraction isn't negotiable makes dating challenging. 

Perel stated the greatest way to hold opposites is to never feel you are right.

Lovers seldom argue about right and wrong. 

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