How To Create Peace In A Relationship — Without Surrendering Your Identity

For nearly 20 years, IRT has been a top couple's therapy method. 

Let's start with Imago's similarities to other treatments.

The actual work of a relationship starts when you stop thinking whether your spouse is "right" or if marrying them was "right."

Love may coexist with relationship conflict and friction.

The framework restores love and compassion, regardless of differences.

Friends, siblings, parents, adult children, couples living together, etc.

In IRT, partners learn that their distressing behavior is mostly reactive, a defense against past hurt and anxiety, and often unconscious.

Partners change when they learn to heal their partner's prior wounds.

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